You are safe with me.

We took these photos in November, shortly after the election.

The days immediately following the election were days of fear and shock for me and for many minority communities.  As a uteris-owner, an LGBTQA person, and an artist, I am personally affected by the discriminatory and anti-progressive policies being put forth by the conservatives and their current leader.  Many other women and immigrant families I knew, including my father, were open with me about their distress at the situation.  I exchanged many a tearful hug that first week.

If you are part of one of these communities, I have a message for you.

I know that we are all feeling particularly downtrodden right now.  It’s hard not to give into that helpless feeling, that sense of being vulnerable.  You have to be patient with yourself.  Take care of yourself and remember the things that are good in life.  Things that are deeper and more real than government and politics.

You know what things I’m talking about.  Your favorite song, or a beautiful healthy plant.  The sun on your skin while you swim, talking with your best friend, holding a newborn baby.

Remember the good in life.  Be aware of the bad, but don’t let it consume you.  And please know that whatever happens, you are safe with me.

I choose to wear the safety pin as a sign to others in my communities that I am an ally.  If I see injustice being done, I will speak up and I will act to protect my brothers and sisters.

You are safe with me.

Thanks for reading,

Rebecca

Photos by Wilson McAlester

Outfit Details:
Dress - Ross

Jacket - Torrid

Boots - Steve Madden